About Me

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In 2014 I lost my spouse to suicide, at the time my boys were only 10 and 13. I lost myself... I fell into a traumatizing marriage and was then faced with the death of my only daughter in 2017. I hit complete bottom. 

From the outside looking in, things seemed picturesque. I had always overcome, it was in my nature. My childhood was rough, issues with abuse, sexual, physical and emotional. But I had made it, becoming a pilot in the USAF, how does that not just scream "amazing accomplishment." The reality of it was that I had pushed so hard to please everyone around me I did not recognize the damage I had done to myself and my family. In 2014 it all fell apart, I lost my spouse, my friendships, myself...

Broken I remarried immediately to another widow who had a ton of baggage that he needed to fix. We were two broken souls that needed to heal ourselves before we could be in a healthy relationship. 

We were struggling, but in love. I thought about leaving, daily. I felt so overwhelmed, how could someone that I loved be doing so much damage. In 2017 we found out we were having a baby girl, we were beside ourselves. Shortly after the Dr. let us know that she had an issue with her heart. It was a long emotional pregnancy followed by complete emotional trauma as my marriage crumbled and I sat next to my daughter day after day watching her fight for her life.

She lost her courageous battle while in our arms 26 days after she was born. It was a make or break moment for my spouse and I. This was either going to be the end or the beginning. 

From that moment on we started focusing on fixing "ourselves" and then worked on fixing our relationship. Change is the most ugly beautiful thing that we can experience! 

I now use this blessed journey as a way to help others to heal! Yes, I have two Masters Degrees and a bucket full of amazing military experiences but my true power lies n being an empath and being able to connect with you on a spiritual level, sharing my energy and helping you to release your own "blocked" emotions that keep creeping up and eating at you. 

My passion is bringing your soul back to a state of joy! 

I practice both the Emotion Code and Body Code methodologies to balance your mind, body and soul. 

Hugs! 

~AJ~